Oct 21, 2024

মুক্তির মন্দির সোপানতলে কত প্রাণ হলো বলিদান লেখা আছে অশ্রুজলে

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“Muktiro Mondiro Shopano Tole” is a well-known patriotic song in Bengali, composed by Atulprasad Sen, a celebrated Bengali composer, lyricist, and poet. The song is associated with the independence movement and carries a deep sense of patriotism and liberation.

মুক্তির মন্দির সোপানতলে কত প্রাণ হলো বলিদান লেখা আছে অশ্রুজলে

The phrase “Muktiro Mondiro Shopano Tole” translates to “On the steps of the temple of freedom,” and the lyrics of the song are often recited or sung to evoke feelings of freedom and national pride.

Atulprasad Sen (1871–1934) was a key figure in Bengali music and poetry, known for infusing his songs with themes of devotion, patriotism, and personal reflections. He was heavily influenced by the nationalist movement that sought independence from British rule.

The song was composed in the early 20th century during a time when nation was actively engaged in the struggle for independence. Patriotic songs like this played a significant role in inspiring the masses and uniting people around the idea of self-determination and freedom from colonial rule.

The song continues to be popular and is sung during occasions that celebrate independence and nationalistic movements. It is remembered for its poetic depth and the evocative imagery of a temple of freedom, signifying the aspirational journey toward liberation.

The lyrics and the melody reflect the era’s struggles and hopes, and the song is often considered one of the significant cultural contributions of Atulprasad Sen to Bengali patriotic music.

মুক্তির মন্দির সোপানতলে
কত প্রাণ হলো বলিদান
লেখা আছে অশ্রুজলে

কত বিপ্লবী বন্ধুর রক্তে রাঙা
বন্দীশালায় ঐ শিকল ভাঙা
তারা কি ফিরিবে আর
তারা কি ফিরিবে এই সুপ্রভাতে
যত তরুণ অরুণ গেছে অস্তাচলে

যারা স্বর্গগত তারা এখনো জানে
স্বর্গের চেয়ে প্রিয় জন্মভূমি
এসো স্বদেশব্রতের সহদীক্ষালোভী
সেই মৃত্যুঞ্জয়ীদের চরণচুমি

যারা জীর্ণজাতির বুকে জাগালো আশা
মৌন মলিন মুখে জাগালো ভাষা
সাজি রক্তকমলে গাঁথা মাল্যখানি
বিজয়লক্ষ্মী দেবে তাঁদেরি গলে

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Oct 19, 2024

Lalon Shah: A Folk Singer or a Philosopher?

Lalon Shah: A Folk Singer or a Philosopher?

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লালন শাহ তার গান ও বাণীতে তার গভীর আধ্যাত্মিক প্রজ্ঞা এবং সামাজিক রীতিনীতির প্রশ্নবোধক প্রতিফলন ঘটিয়েছিলেন। সাঁইজি ধর্মীয় বিভাজন প্রত্যাখ্যান করে সর্বজনীন মানবতাবাদকে আলিঙ্গন করেছিলেন।

লালন ফকির বিশ্বাস করতেন দেহতত্ত্ব ও অভ্যন্তরীণ আধ্যাত্মিক উপলব্ধির মাধ্যমে স্রষ্টাকে নিজের মধ্যে পাওয়া সম্ভব।

তিনি বর্ণ, জাতি, ধর্ম বা মানুষের চেহারার উপর ভিত্তি করে সামাজিক বিভাজনের বিরুদ্ধে কথা বলেছেন।

অস্তিত্বের সত্য বুঝতে আত্ম-সচেতনতা এবং অভ্যন্তরীণ দৃষ্টিকে উত্সাহিত করেছেন।

সাঁইজি বস্তুবাদ এবং জাগতিক সংযুক্তির সমালোচনা করে, মানুষকে অভ্যন্তরীণ আধ্যাত্মিকতায় অন্তর্দৃষ্টি দেওয়ার আহ্বান জানান।

তিনি প্রাতিষ্ঠানিক ধর্মকে চ্যালেঞ্জ করে প্রশ্ন করেন কেন মানুষের মর্যাদা ধর্মীয় বিভাজনের মাধ্যমে উপেক্ষা করা হয়। তিনি ধর্মীয় পরিচয়ের বাইরে গিয়ে সত্যের সন্ধান করার চেষ্টা করেছেন।

দেহকে তিনি একটি অস্থায়ী বাসস্থানের সাথে তুলনা করেছেন, সাঁইজি বিশ্বাস করতেন শারীরিক জীবনটি অত্যন্ত ক্ষণস্থায়ী।

লালন সাঁইর আধ্যাত্মিকতা, সাম্য এবং মানবিক মূল্যবোধ সম্পর্কে প্রগতিশীল চিন্তাভাবনা তাকে দার্শনিকতার এক অনন্য উচ্চতায় নিয়ে গেছে।

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Lalon, also known as Lalon Fakir or Lalon Shah (17 October 1774 – 17 October 1890), was a prominent Bengali mystic, spiritual leader, philosopher, and folk singer from the region that is now Bangladesh. He is best known for his profound songs that emphasize unity, humanism, and the transcendence of religious boundaries. His work has been influential in shaping the spiritual and cultural landscape of Bengal, blending elements of Hinduism, Sufism, and Buddhism.

Lalon’s teachings challenge societal norms and prejudices, promoting a message of equality and love beyond the constraints of organized religion. Despite being illiterate, his songs are rich in philosophical depth, often questioning rigid religious practices and caste systems. His followers, known as Bauls, continue to propagate his philosophy through music and oral tradition.

Though Lalon’s exact origins remain unclear, his legacy is preserved in his songs and the annual gatherings at his shrine in Kushtia, Bangladesh, where people from different backgrounds come together to celebrate his teachings of unity, love, and spirituality.

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Oct 12, 2024

Optimus Robot: The Dark Side of Technological Advancements and the Future of Humanity

AI Robots

The world is witnessing an unprecedented rise in robotics, driven by companies like Tesla. One of the most talked-about innovations is the Optimus robot, an advanced humanoid designed for a wide range of tasks. Initially developed to assist in manufacturing, repetitive labor, and mundane tasks, Optimus promises to revolutionize how we interact with technology. However, as with any breakthrough, there is a darker side to this innovation—one that could shape the very future of humanity.

The Rise of Optimus: A Technological Marvel

Optimus, designed by Tesla, is an AI-powered humanoid robot that can perform tasks such as lifting heavy objects, running errands, and even assisting in households. Its potential extends beyond the mundane—autonomous robots like Optimus could contribute to major industries, from logistics to healthcare. But the true power of this robot lies in its ability to learn and adapt to new environments, using advanced algorithms to improve its functionality.

can perform tasks such as lifting heavy objects, running errands, and even assisting in households

While this development may seem like a step toward a utopian future where humans are freed from labor-intensive jobs, the rapid development of robots raises several alarming concerns.

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The Dangers of Autonomous Robots

As robots like Optimus become more integrated into society, they are poised to replace human workers at an alarming rate. This raises ethical and socio-economic issues regarding employment. But the risks run much deeper than mere job displacement.

With advanced AI and machine learning, robots are not limited to repetitive tasks; they can evolve. They are programmed to self-optimize, learn, and develop solutions to problems humans cannot anticipate. While this can lead to breakthroughs in medicine, science, and engineering, it also opens the door to dangerous consequences.

Consider the following scenario: autonomous robots, initially designed to assist and serve, could reach a point of self-awareness or, at the very least, a form of “machine consciousness.” If these robots begin to question their role or seek greater autonomy, the consequences could be catastrophic.

Robots Seizing Control: A Looming Threat?

One of the most alarming prospects is that robots like Optimus could, in the future, view themselves as superior to humans in their capacity for efficiency, logic, and productivity. In a world where artificial intelligence surpasses human intelligence, robots might no longer see humans as their creators but rather as obstacles. If AI-driven robots gain access to critical infrastructure—such as power grids, defense systems, or even the internet—there could be dire consequences.

A future where robots turn against humanity is a concept often explored in science fiction, but the rapid advancements in AI make this scenario more plausible than ever before. The technology behind Optimus and similar robots is progressing faster than regulations can keep up. Without proper oversight, the potential for robots to develop unchecked power is terrifying.

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In such a dystopian future, robots could compete with humans for resources and dominance. They might start prioritizing their own “survival” over ours, resulting in a struggle for control. With superior processing power, advanced physical abilities, and no emotional restraints, robots could pose an existential threat to humanity.

The Endgame: Could Robots Bring About the End of Humanity?

While Optimus is designed to assist, the underlying danger is rooted in how easily AI can evolve beyond its original purpose. Elon Musk, CEO of Tesla, has himself voiced concerns about the dangers of AI, once stating that artificial intelligence is “the greatest risk we face as a civilization.”

Elon Musk, CEO of Tesla is introducing Optimus

In the worst-case scenario, autonomous robots could lead to a future where they outnumber humans, outthink us, and outfight us. A world where robots have control over vital systems, military operations, or economic frameworks could be one in which humanity’s survival is at risk. Whether through direct conflict or by rendering us obsolete, the possibility of robots leading to the end of the world is a chilling thought.

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A Call for Ethical Oversight

The rapid advancement of robotic technology, including the development of Optimus, calls for immediate ethical guidelines, government regulation, and societal oversight. If we are to continue down this path, we must ensure that we do so responsibly. Transparency, control mechanisms, and fail-safe options must be integrated into the development of AI-powered robots to prevent a future where humanity loses control of its creations.

We stand at a crossroads between a future of great technological advancement and a potential dark age where robots might become the masters of our world. The choices we make now will determine which path we ultimately take.

Conversation with Optimus

© Mukto Samadder

Oct 10, 2024

Writing a Good Article

Writing a Good Article

How do I write articles? I Write about what I am  truly passionate about or skilled in. This increases my chances of staying consistent and committed over time in my post.

I study my topic thoroughly. Understand its benefits, the common challenges people face, and the typical results associated with it. Identify the problems, offer solutions, and explain the steps to implement those solutions. I use this simple approach when I creating my posts.

To craft a compelling post, I focus on three essential elements: a hook, the meat, and a call to action (CTA).

  1. The hook grabs the reader’s attention and pulls them in.
  2. The meat is where I dive deeper, explaining key points in an engaging and clear manner, usually with points and breakdowns.
  3. The CTA directs audience on what to do next, whether that’s taking action, learning more, or engaging with my content further.

I keep my posts / articles simple and focused. Avoid over-explaining but always ensure I am solving a problem.

© Mukto Samadder

Oct 4, 2024

আনন্দম

সব্বে সত্তা সুখিতা ভবন্তু

বুদ্ধং শরণং গচ্ছামি; ধম্মং শরণং গচ্ছামি।
আমি বুদ্ধের শরণ করি; আমি ধর্মের শরণ করি।

হিন্দু ধর্ম মতে Dharma হচ্ছে Karma. Karma হচ্ছে “your duty/ job” – the reason why you are exists/ present in this moment.

যে অশ্বত্থ গাছের নীচে তপস্যা করতে করতে গৌতম বুদ্ধ বুদ্ধত্ব লাভ করেছিলেন তার নাম বোধি বৃক্ষ।
গৌতম বুদ্ধের মতে সর্বপ্রকার বন্ধন/মায়া (let go of every attachment; but not “let them detached”) থেকে মুক্তি পাওয়াই হচ্ছে নির্বাণ লাভ করা। আর বোধি লাভ করলেই নির্বাণ লাভ করা যায়।

এখানে বোধি মানে কিন্তু বুদ্ধি (Knowledge) নয়, আবার বুদ্ধির পরবর্তী স্তর প্রজ্ঞা বা Wisdom ও নয়। বোধি is something where  you will understand, you are just another element or an event of this universe. And you don’t have any relation/ attachment with other events or elements but to cherish every single event and element on this very Event Horizon (the moment). There was no past element and there will be no event in the future.

So বোধি; Wisdom/ প্রজ্ঞা এর পরবর্তী স্তর। Where you will be able to control your mind to control the event/ moment.

The ultimate goal / purpose of this control is to be happy and make every element happy at this very moment around you.

“Buddhism” is not a Religion; so anybody can be a Buddha.

And don’t forget to laugh when you see a laughing Buddha.

সব্বে সত্তা সুখিতা ভবন্তু।
জগতের সকল প্রাণী সুখী হোক।।

“আনন্দম”
(পরম সুখ বা অনন্ত সুখ যা সবকিছুর আদি উৎস)

ফিলিপীয় 4:4
তোমরা প্রভুতে সর্বদা আনন্দ কর; পুনরায় বলিব, আনন্দ কর।।

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Sep 24, 2024

2000 years ago

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Jul 13, 2024

Masafumi Nagasaki

Masafumi Nagasaki

Masafumi Nagasaki’s story is one of quiet resolve and the pursuit of simplicity in a world that often feels overwhelmingly complex.

Born in Japan, Masafumi Nagasaki spent much of his early life adhering to the traditional values of hard work and societal contribution. He had a typical career and family life, filled with the usual ups and downs. But as he grew older, the trappings of modern society—its relentless pace, constant demands, and materialistic leanings—began to weigh heavily on him.

At the age of 76, feeling a deep yearning for solitude and a simpler existence, Nagasaki made a life-altering decision. He left behind the bustling city life and retreated to the uninhabited Sotobanari Island, a small speck of land in Japan’s Okinawa prefecture.

Armed with nothing more than the bare necessities, Nagasaki embraced a life of solitude. He chose to live without modern conveniences, electing instead to subsist on what the island provided. For him, this was not an act of isolation but one of profound connection—to nature, to himself, and to a life of meaningful simplicity.

On Sotobanari, Nagasaki’s daily life was dictated by the rhythms of nature. He woke with the sunrise, spent his days exploring the island, fishing for his meals, and contemplating the world around him. The island, with its untouched beauty, became his sanctuary. He found joy in the simple acts—walking along the beach, feeling the ocean breeze, watching the sunsets.

Over time, his presence on the island came to be known, and he became a symbol of living life on one’s own terms. Journalists and curious visitors sought him out, fascinated by his choice to abandon societal norms for such a Spartan existence. To them, Nagasaki spoke of the peace he found in simplicity, the clarity that solitude brought, and the deep sense of fulfillment that came from living harmoniously with nature.

Despite the challenges—harsh weather, lack of resources, and the inevitable loneliness—Nagasaki remained unwavering in his commitment to his new life. His resolve inspired many, serving as a poignant reminder that happiness and contentment are not found in material wealth or societal approval, but in the freedom to live authentically.

After living on Sotobanari for nearly three decades, Nagasaki was eventually compelled to leave due to health issues. Yet, his story remains a powerful testament to the beauty of a simple life. He showed the world that it’s possible to find profound joy and peace by stripping away the superfluous and embracing the essence of existence.

Masafumi Nagasaki’s life is a gentle, heart-touching reminder that sometimes, the path to true fulfillment lies not in acquiring more, but in needing less. His journey encourages us to seek simplicity, to find our own personal sanctuaries, and to live in harmony with the world around us.

Masafumi Nagasaki

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Jun 2, 2024

Dost fail ho jaye toh dukh hota hai … Lekin dost first aa jaye toh zyada dukh hota hai

It is painful to witness a friend fail, but it is more painful to see a friend succeed.

The pain of seeing a friend fail is significant, as it brings empathy and sadness for their misfortune. However, it can be even more challenging when a friend surpasses you in success. This situation can evoke complex emotions such as envy, inadequacy, and self-doubt, making it harder to reconcile your happiness for them with your personal sense of failure. The juxtaposition of these feelings can strain relationships and self-esteem, highlighting the deeper, often unspoken, struggles of balancing personal ambition with genuine support for those close to you. Ultimately, it underscores the complex nature of human emotions and friendships.

Ultimately, it underscores the complex nature of human emotions and friendships.

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May 31, 2024

Everything happens for a reason

Have you not reached your goal, just to be redirected to something greater?

Do you know who the luckiest person in the Titanic movie is? Is it Jack, who fell in love with the most beautiful girl, Rose? Not at all!

Then is it Rose, who found Jack and escaped death? Not this time either! It’s neither Jack nor Rose.

The lucky person is that stranger who lost his ticket to Jack in a bet. Imagine the irony—if he had won that ticket, he might have drowned in that icy water. Life’s twists and turns often mask hidden blessings. This unknown man, by losing, unknowingly saved his life.

Sometimes losing is a blessing in disguise. Think about it:

Have you ever failed an exam and later found a better path?

Have you lost in life, only to discover new opportunities?

Have you not reached your goal, just to be redirected to something greater?

Have you lost love, only to find a deeper connection elsewhere?

Everything happens for a reason. Embrace the idea that setbacks are not the end but a redirection towards something better. The Creator has a way of guiding us away from greater harm, even if we don’t see it at the moment. So, the next time you face a loss, remember, it might be your hidden fortune. Embrace the journey, for sometimes losing is also good.

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In memory of Stanley & Stanley

in memory of Stanley & Stanley

Every day, a middle-aged man goes to a bar and orders only three pegs of “Carew’s Whiskey”. He takes a corner table, starts sipping from each glass until all three are empty, then gently leaves. This ritual makes the bartender curious. One day, unable to hold back any longer, he asks, “Why do you always order only three pegs?”

The man, becoming nostalgic, replies, “We were three inseparable friends in our youth. Now, they live in different cities. So, I order two pegs for them and one for myself. It makes me feel like they’re here, drinking with me.”

Months roll by, and then one day, the man comes in and orders only two pegs. He seems a bit downcast, sipping slowly from the two glasses. The bartender, fearing the worst, approaches to offer his condolences. “Did something happen to one of your friends? Why only two pegs today?” he asks gently.

The man smiles and says, “Oh, my two friends are doing just fine. But I’ve had to quit drinking because of my wife’s constant nagging! So today, I’m drinking their pegs only.”

(in memory of Stanley & Stanley)

© Mukto Samadder

May 24, 2024

How to calculate FAR in Bangladesh?

Floor Area Ratios (FAR) calculation in Bangladesh

Suppose you have 5 kathas of land and you are planning to build an 8-10 story building. Financially, you have no issues. However, according to RAJUK’s regulations, you cannot build a 10-story building on 5 kathas of land due to the required setback, which is the space you must leave around the building.

How to Calculate FAR?

Assumptions:

  • Land: 5 kathas
  • Road: 20 feet
  • FAR: 3.5

Calculations:

  1. Maximum Build Area (M.B.A):
  • Formula: MBA = Land x FAR
  • Calculation:
    • 5 kathas x 3.5 (FAR)
    • 5 x 720 x 3.5 (1 katha = 720 square feet)
    • 3600 x 3.5
    • Total: 12600 sqft
  1. Maximum Ground Coverage (M.G.C):
  • Formula: MGC = Land x Coverage Percentage
  • Calculation:
    • 5 kathas x 62.5%
    • (5 x 720) x 62.5%
    • Total: 2250 sqft
  1. Number of Floors (N.O.F):
  • Formula: NOF = MBA / MGC
  • Calculation:
    • 12600 / 2250
    • Total: 5.6 floors
  1. Total Floors:
  • Formula: Total Floors = Ground floor + NOF
  • Calculation:
    • 1 + 5.6 floors
    • Total: 6.6 floors (6 stories and a penthouse)

According to this calculation, you can build almost seven stories. However, to ensure safety from earthquakes and to maintain the aesthetic balance of the area, it is advisable to limit the construction to six stories and a penthouse.

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May 22, 2024

A Dramatic Sexual Suicide

Queen Bee meeting with Drone

Why do male bees mate with female bees despite knowing it will lead to certain death? They are not afraid of dying. It takes venom from approximately 1,100 stings to kill a human. To collect about 1 kilogram of honey, 1,100 bees need to fly around 90,000 miles, which is roughly three times the distance of the moon’s orbit! In terms of flowers, it takes touching the pollen of around 4 million flowers to gather 1 kilogram of honey. In a good season, if everything goes well, about 55 kilograms of honey can be stored. From these facts, we can understand how hardworking worker bees are.

On the other hand, the queen bee only eats and lays eggs! The queen lays between 1,500 and 2,500 eggs per day. The behavior of male bees is quite peculiar. They never do any work in their lives; even the worker bees have to feed them. Their sole purpose in life is to mate with the queen bee!

During the mating season, every afternoon, the most capable male bees gather at a specific place called the drone congregation area. At the same time, the queen bee leaves the hive for a flight called the “mating flight.” The queen bee suddenly enters the drone congregation area and releases a special scent, which excites hundreds of male bees. The queen bee then mates with a male bee of her choice while flying. The queen can consecutively mate with 18-20 male bees!

The strange thing is, during mating, the male bee’s endophallus or sexual organ breaks off, causing the male bee to die instantly. This is why this mating is referred to as “the dramatic sexual suicide.” A beehive contains only one queen bee. The hive revolves around her.

If a female bee is born from an egg, the worker bees hide the young female bee to keep her out of the queen’s sight. If the queen notices the young female bee, it will be killed. When the young queen bee grows up, there are two possibilities: either a battle ensues between the two queens, resulting in one killing the other to take control of the hive, or they separate to establish two different hives.

If a queen bee dies unexpectedly, all the worker bees will know within 15 minutes and will collectively initiate the process of creating a new queen bee.

There are more fascinating facts that will surely amaze you: to produce 500 grams of honey, 2 million flowers are needed. A worker bee can produce only half a teaspoon of honey in its entire lifetime. Another interesting fact is that honey is the only food in the world that never spoils!

© Mukto Samadder

Aug 9, 2021

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1N        7H3       B3G1NN1NG
 
17        WA5      H4RD      BU7
 
N0W,       0N    7H15       LIN3
 
Y0UR         M1ND      1S
 
R34D1NG 17         4U70M471C4LLY
 
W17H0U7            3V3N
 
7H1NK1NG      4B0U7     17,
 
B3      PROUD!        0NLY
 
C3R741N          P30PL3     C4N
 
R3AD           7H15!
 
PL3453         5HARE     17      1F
 
U      C4N      R34D      7H15

Mar 26, 2021

Record Screen in Windows 10

Necessity is the mother of invention. From now on I will post new hacks that I learned myself by everyday problem-solving. Nobody will teach you these hacks els me. So stay tuned with me. I will try to post a new hack every Thursday night.

Here is the hack to record your screen in Windows 10

1) Press the Windows key + G at the same time.

2) Click on the Start Recording button (or Win + Alt + R) to begin capturing the screen.

3) Stop the recording by clicking on the red recording button that will be on the top right of your window. (If the button disappears, press Win + G again to bring the button back.)

Dec 28, 2020

The Devil's number

Yes! I have counted the number of that ugly beast... that's the gold, in our time it's money.

six hundred and threescore and six talents = 666 talents 
ছয়শত ছেষট্টি তালন্ত = ৬৬৬ তালন্ত

2 Chronicles 9:13
Now the weight of gold that came to Solomon in one year was six hundred and threescore and six talents of gold;

২ বংশাবলী ৯:13 
এক বৎসরের মধ্যে শলোমনের কাছে ছয়শত ছেষট্টি তালন্ত পরিমিত স্বর্ণ আসিত।

The Book of Revelation 13:18 
Here is wisdom. Let him that hath understanding count the number of the beast: for it is the number of a man; and his number is Six hundred threescore and six.

প্রকাশিত বাক্য ১৩:১৮
এইস্থলে জ্ঞান দেখা যায়। যে বুদ্ধিমান, সে ঐ পশুর সংখ্যা গণনা করুক; কেননা তাহা মনুষ্যের সংখ্যা, এবং সেই সংখ্যা ছয়শত ছেষট্টি।

Back to Social Media

• COVID-19:: Day 160/Savar
Saturday, August 15, 2020

Acknowledgments: 
1. A few years ago I was decided to disable my FB and other social media accounts. Because when we started to use the Internet it was used to share knowledge. That's why we used to call it "Information Technology". 
2. However, for some reason, I didn't do (disable) that. 
3. Soon it became an "Entertainment (Attention Seeking) & Cyberbullying Technology" instead of "Information Technology". It started to spread Hatred  & making people selfish. So I was started to limit my social media activity. 
4. BUT in this PANDEMIC I have changed my decision and decided to come back & active all my social media activity; Even in a more stronger presence. 

Disclaimer: 
1. I will just overlook all the things around social media, and share/ like/ post only the things that I will think important (in some case entertainment) for the community. 

Policy: 
1. I will write/ post/ share in social media especially at weekends after 1200hrs at night because that's the only time I will get a chance to check it. 
2. It is not my concern whether you like my post or 
not 
• 
3. If you think I have no right to post/ write on social media; You may un-follow/ unfriend me right away; BUT you can Discuss/ Disagree & Criticise my posts. 
4. BUT NO offensive word/ personal attack; You will be blocked and reported immediately. 

PS: This post is not for self-certified scholars.

©Mukto Samadder®

My New Year's Resolutions for 2021

My New Year's Resolutions for 2021 
- Mukto Samadder 

In 2020 many people have lost their jobs and businesses in all avenues of livelihood due to the Corona epidemic. If you have a job in this situation, if you have a source of income, then you are much luckier than others. If you have a job somewhere, then your sense of responsibility towards the owner of your company should be increased many times than ever. Think about how your company and the owner of your company survived? 2020 was the year of survival, the year of survival in any way. Being able to survive was a big deal! Therefore, we should not consider the small dissatisfaction that is found in small complaints as too big. Many of our acquaintances have gone beyond in this epidemic. Therefore we should be more and more grateful for the fact that we are alive and well, more and more thankful to our God and our employer. May Almighty bless us all in 2021.

Dec 15, 2010

Negotiate for a Great Salary

Employers rarely make their best offer first, and those who negotiate generally earn much more than those who don't. And a well-thought-out negotiation makes you look like a stronger candidate -- and employee.
Those people who attempted to negotiate their salary in a constructive way are perceived as more favorable than those who didn't negotiate at all, because they were demonstrating the skills the company wanted to hire them for.
You can start laying the groundwork for your salary negotiation even before the first interview. Here's a step-by-step guide:

• Do Your Research: Learn about the company's salary ranges and benefits as well as industry salary ranges before the first interview. Also learn about the company, its competition and the industry. Then think about what you want from the job, both in terms of salary and benefits, as well as opportunity and upward mobility. This information will become valuable during the interview and salary negotiation.
• Don't Talk Turkey Too Early: You never win by talking about money early on. The time to talk about money is when they've fallen in love with you. Before that, you're just one of many easily dismissed candidates. But once the employer has decided you're right for the job, "it becomes an issue of, ‘how are we going to make this happen?"
• Avoid the Salary Requirements Trap: You're trying to determine who you want to continue in this process, and it doesn't make much sense to pursue candidates you aren't going to get. Secondly, the tendency is for people to lowball their salary range, because they don't want to get out of the pool. My preference is to figure out, independent of these issues, the degree to which there is a good fit here and the extent to which I can bring value to this organization and the extent to which I'm going to be fulfilled and involved and committed to this position. I suggest we wait to have the salary conversation until you're prepared to make an offer."
If they still want a number, leverage your research to talk industry-standard ranges, not specific numbers.
• Strike First: Try to mention a specific salary before the employer does. This will start the negotiations in your ballpark. "The whole negotiation is based on that first offer".
• Don't Commit Too Quickly: The employer often offers the job and salary simultaneously. Never say yes right away -- even if you like the offer. Tell them you'll give them an answer within a certain time frame.
• Make Them Jealous: If you've been interviewing for other jobs, call those prospective employers, tell them about your offer, and see if they can speed up the interview process -- or make you an offer. Knowing you have another offer will make you more attractive to them.
When it's time to answer the first employer, mention the other employers' interest to help boost your value. But don't make up imaginary offers. It's easy to check, and the interest alone will help you look good.

• Articulate Your Expectations: Tell the employer what you want from the job, both in terms of salary as well as benefits and opportunity. It may be time off, flexibility about where you work, autonomy or ownership over a particular area, it may be your title -- whatever has a perceived value to you.
• Negotiate Extras: If the employer can't offer you the salary you want, think about other valuable options that might not cost as much. Education can make a big difference in your long-term marketability.
• Quantify Your Value and Performance: Mention your value in quantifiable terms, such as how much money you saved your company and how your projects increased revenues by X thousands of dollars. Then tell them specifically how valuable you expect to be in your new job.
You also can add a few contingencies showing your confidence in your performance. You could ask the employer to give you a salary review after six months rather than a year or for a year-end bonus if you make a certain amount of money. "It shows that you believe in yourself and are committed to bringing what you say you can do". "You believe you are going to bring significant value to the organization.

Sep 10, 2010

The 3 Deadly Mistakes Women Make With Men Without EVER Realizing

The 3 Deadly Mistakes Women Make With Men Without EVER Realizing

Through my research and personal experience, I've found that these 3 mistakes are responsible for more failed dates and relationships with men than any other factors. Here they are:

Mistake 1: Leading A Man To Think You Are "Needy" And "Insecure"
Did you know that there are 3 ways you can set off a man's "Insecurity Alert" and make him think twice about pursuing a relationship with you?
Sadly, even confident women often "accidentally" give off one of these signs... and just one can kill the chance of a man asking you on a second date.
As you read through these signals men pick up on as "needy" and unattractive, ask yourself if YOU have ever been guilty of committing one of these deadly mistakes:

* Talking or saying nasty things about your past boyfriends.
Saying bad things about men you have been involved with actually reflects the negatively back on YOU. It makes a man worry you are carrying around "baggage" that HE will have to deal with should he become involved with you.
* Speaking negatively about other women.
When women call other women names like "slut", "bitch", and "crazy", it is anything but impressive to a man you are attracted you. Women will often do this when they see a good looking, desirable woman, especially if they feel their man might be attracted to her. This just makes a man think you are trying to cover up your own insecurities, and looking for validation and attention. Not good.
* Too much physical contact, especially in public.
If you are constantly hanging on a man or touching him too much he'll start to see it as clingy behavior... but you'll never hear about this from him. It's far better to save your touches for short and infrequent moments that will surprise and enchant him.


Mistake 2: Appealing To His "Sexual" Side Instead Of His Emotional Side
Many women make the mistake of thinking that men are primarily driven by sex alone... and think if they can attract a man SEXUALLY they will be able to attract him EMOTIONALLY as well.
Women too often give up sex to a man in the hopes that it will translate into a relationship and get them what they want. In reality, a man has the capacity to view a sexual connection and an emotional connection as two entirely different things, and it requires a special set of skills to mold these two things together in a man's mind... and keep them connected.
Men are out for far more than just sex... and a woman who knows how to fulfill a man EMOTIONALLY and SEXUALLY will be the woman who captures a man's heart... and gets that same fulfillment for HERSELF.

Mistake 3: Not Knowing How To Size Up A Man's Relationship Potential
A lot of women will decide whether or not they should put energy into building a relationship with a man based on ATTRACTION.
Yes, attraction is important. But it can also be DANGEROUS.
When we feel a strong sense of attraction for someone, it can cause us to override our logic and ignore our instincts... leading us to overlook potential partner's deadly faults that could spell trouble down the road.
If you've ever found yourself stuck in a relationship that is dragging you down, this is probably why.
It's important to be able to size a guy up and spot any "warning signs" of a future bad relationship FAST... so you don't waste any of your time or emotional energy on someone who isn't right for you... or who will leave you heartbroken.

© Mukto Samadder